The best way to do a prostate orgasm is for her to insert her a latex gloved finger in your anus and to find your prostate gland and to massage it. Done correctly, this will cause you to release built up semen out of your penis. It is like an orgasm, only it is not intense. The semen kind of just flows out in a long stream, instead of shooting out like during an orgasm. If she really wants to deny you pleasure, she can numb your penis and balls with an ice pack before she performs a prostate milking. There are web sites that list how to do a prostate milking if she needs additional information. I allow my husband occasional orgasms but they are done in humiliating ways and for my entertainment. Perhaps your wife could do that instead of the prostate milkings. Inform her of her options and allow her to decide how she would prefer that you obtain your rare release. I hope this helps you. Your wife is correct in that a denied husband is an obedient husband. A sexually satisfied husband is a lazy husband. Sex is for the woman's pleasure.
Recent studies conducted in Australia speculate that men who regularly masturbated, while in their 20s, may have better chances of avoiding prostate cancer in later life. There's never been a better reason for masturbation!!
With the above in mind perhaps men locked in chastity devices should receive regular milking to help maintain good prostate health. Milking may help to "flush out" the build up of toxins which accumulate within the prostate gland of a chaste male by enabling him to ejaculate without experiencing orgasm.
Prostate Milking can be used for two purposes:
To intensify orgasm and increase the amount of ejaculate. In such instances you or your keyholder would release you from your chastity device and whilst simulating the prostate gland, tease, excite, and arouse your cock.
To milk a man dry, whilst denying him orgasm.
Milking in terms of chastity is concerned with orgasm denial, ejaculation without orgasm. The technique used is the same prostate massage method, the only difference is that the penis is not to be aroused or excited by touch, and usually remains locked within the chastity belt or cage. This is something many keyholders like to introduce, and now with the news of the Australian study your keyholder can insist it's for the benefit of your health. You have no reason to refuse!
Prostate milking sometimes involves your keyholder placing ice around the cock and balls to reduce your enjoyment. Inventive mistresses and masters have even designed home made ice trays to freeze the water in a shape of a thick ice cock ring, which the chaste man must wear during the weekly milking session.
The milking session usually lasts between 10 - 40 minutes, and is a pleasurable gentle massage of the prostate, after about 10 minutes you will begin to release fluid which has a sensation similar to slow urinating, after continued massage the fluid flows out freely. This then becomes the property of your keyholder, and perhaps collected as it drops from you in a jar, cup or saucer. Some keyholders will insist that you then consume your own ejaculate, as a demonstration of your slave status, that you are humble, and fully appreciative of your keyholder.
Of course another method to ensure good prostate health, which your keyholder may prefer to adopt, is to simply release you from your chastity device and instruct you to masturbate until you ejaculate. This is preferred by many keyholders who love to watch their chaste male masturbate for them.